Every day I greet my students at the door before class begins. Usually it’s a quick hello, smile, and, occasionally, a high-five or handshake. Over the past week I noticed that my freshmen students don’t really respond well to the greeting. Sometimes, they smile back, yet seldom make eye contact. Others simply walk past me – unacceptable. Several freshmen shake hands, but it’s like shaking a wet fish. They either don’t care or they don’t understand the protocol when you greet someone.
I took it upon myself to change this exchange. My goal is to have every freshmen student greet me properly at the door. I initized the greeting with a handshake, providing instant feedback if the student had less than a firm hold. Next, I made sure the student made eye-contact while shaking my hand. Then, we nodded – it just make it fun. I would say “shake, eye, nod.” as we went through the motions.
How did the students respond to my first day of proper greeting? They loved it. Every student had a smile on their face before entering class. In fact, when I poked my head back into the classroom I saw freshmen greeting each other the same way I greeted them. They thought it was fun.
Here’s what I got out it. First, I was able to check in with every student, even if it’s for 2 seconds. This is a great way to continue to build rapport. Second, when class started I saw students that are more alert and ready to listen. Everyone was in a better mood, allowing for increased learning.
I am interested on how they will respond tomorrow when I greet them at the door. “Shake, eye, nod.”
